by Takarious » Sat Jan 22, 2005 5:01 pm
Hey bill, are the "Circumstances" in kahoots with the "Purpose"?
I've never really been phased by my loved ones dieing, there's only been oen person that I actually did feel remorse for, and that was my ex-girlfriend when she killed herself (quite brutally I might add, the cops found her dead in a bathtub full of blood and feces...). But, I've gotten over it, as will you in good time. If you can't find a way to cope with their deaths, start believing in god(s), that seems to be what most of the world does these days. Just remember on a long enough time line, everyone's survival rate drops to 0%, and your friends were no exception; albeit they still had a full life to live, and such a sudden and grizzly ending does not define a "quiet" and/or "humble" way to leave this plane of existance. But I will agree with some of the following people on one thing: honoring someones death on a forum is not the proper way to give respect, not just because it's the "internet", but because noone on this forum knows (or cares deep down inside). You must realize, that what you're asking us to do is to also grieve for those that would be placed on the same level as the other millions of strangers that die every year. I cannot and will not shed remorse for those which have not touched my life, and expecting people on this forum to project the same "true" empathy that you do, is a little foolish. The death of one that has touched you will always be remorse, but the death of a million who you've never even met won't graze you in the least. It's simply how humanity is built, so guys, quit flaming Bill, because what he says holds alot of truth. I'll give my condolences Glenn, but not my pity.